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How to Access Care for Grandma

Happy grandchild playing a jigsaw puzzle with her grandmotherWomen are living longer, yet their golden years aren’t always bright and golden. The two biggest reasons why women struggle in old age are disability and lack of economic resources. Finding financial help or long term care can be a challenge, but there are VA benefits that may apply if the woman in need is a surviving spouse of a wartime veteran.

Elder Women Struggle with Poverty and Disability

Despite the fact that women live more years than men, they can expect fewer active years,” said Vicki A. Freedman, a researcher at the University of Michigan who has studied disabilities among senior citizens.

According to the National Institute on Retirement Security, a nonprofit research center, women are 80 percent more likely than men to be impoverished at age 65 and older. Women age 75 to 79 are three times more likely.

The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) offers a pension for women who are surviving spouses of wartime veterans and who are below the poverty level.

The VA is also a resource available to many elderly, low-income, disabled women who need assistance with activities of daily living such as bathing, dressing, and medication reminders. Yet these VA benefits for women are often overlooked.

How to Qualify for the Survivors Pension with Aid and Attendance

The Survivors Pension benefit, is a tax-free monetary benefit payable to a low-income,surviving spouse of a deceased veteran with wartime service.  The VA also offers an additional “Aid and Attendance” amount if the surviving spouse is disabled and needs assistance with activities of daily living.

In order to qualify, the deceased veteran must have:

  • Served a minimum of 90 days active duty,
  • Served with at least one day during wartime
  • Received an honorable discharge.

The surviving spouse of the deceased veteran must have been:

  • Married to the veteran for at least one year
  • Married to the veteran at this time of his/her death
  • And in most cases, has not remarried.

The VA doesn’t notify surviving spouses that they are eligible. In fact, they don’t notify veterans that they may be eligible for the Aid and Attendance Pension, so often these benefits go unclaimed. The application process can also be overwhelming for someone who needs assistance with daily living.

For more information and to learn about veterans aid and attendance, contact Veteran’s Home Care at (888) 314-6075.

Bonnie Laiderman, President

Bonnie Laiderman, President

Bonnie Laiderman, founder and president of Veterans Home Care®, has helped more than 14,000 veterans and their spouses receive in home care through the unique VetAssist® Program. Started in 2003 as a one woman operation, Bonnie has overseen the growth of the company to become one of the largest women-owned companies in the St. Louis Metro Region. Veterans Home Care has also earned the Inc. 5000 award of fastest growing companies six times.Now with offices in 10 locations in the United States, Veterans Home Care serves our veterans in 44 states throughout the country.

In addition to growing Veterans Home Care to become the largest provider of its kind in the industry, Bonnie has been a strong supporter of numerous charitable and social organizations with both a local and national impact. Wings of Hope and Lydia’s House have both benefited from Bonnie’s support to continue much needed services to our most vulnerable in need. Bonnie also is a member of the American Red Cross Tiffany Circle, a national society of women leaders. Bonnie serves as Chairperson for the American Red Cross Service Armed Forces Committee.
Bonnie Laiderman, President

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